cassi st. james relationship coaching

1. Create Your Profile

It is hard to look at yourself objectively and capture "who you are" in a page of type written words. Through a series of creative and fun questions, I will learn more about you, highlight your strengths, and paint an accurate picture that will result in a well written profile. Through our one-on-one conversation, I learn about you, your interests, your dating goals and your ideal match criteria. Includes a Keirsey Temperament Sorter. You view several profile examples, which will help me determine the depth of self-disclosure, the tone and style of your unique profile. Within 72 hours, you will have a draft to review. Within one week, your profile will be complete.

(Platinum and Silver Package) Includes a Myers-Briggs (MBTI) personality assessment and Keirsey Temperament Sorter. These are valuable tools that lead to a greater understanding of yourself and others and are great business boosters for sales! These assessments will be debriefed during a separate 90-minute coaching call or face-to face meeting as applicable.

2. Personal Image Assessment

(Platinum and Silver Packages) Stepping out into the dating scene is a fun and exciting experience! Enjoy the benefits of a personal image assessment to asssure you put your best foot forward and make the right impression! You will receive an assessment of your total look (hair, wardrobe, etc) so you an play up your assets and present yourself to your full potential. You can then implement your plan through my pre-screened and trusted partners. 

3. Photo Selection and Formatting

Posting clear and flattering photos are your calling card. It is critical to spend time and choose an array of photos that really capture who you are. There are four critical photos for every profile: the headshot, full body, outdoor activity, and dressy. Your photos will be assessed and formatted, then added to your online profile.

(Platinum and Silver Package) A professional photo shoot will be a fun and exciting experience, that will not only serve for your online dating profile, but for your business needs as well. A pre-screened photogropher in your area to will provide this service for you.

4. Determine "Ideal Match" Criteria

Date in a more focused way to get the relationship you deserve! We will work together to clarify what will make you happy in a relationship, then determine the criteria for your ideal match. This is really the key piece to your dating success so you can break old patterns and begin to choose your dates more strategically! There will be some hard and fast "gatekeeping" criteria that you will determine that your match must have. There will also be some second level "nice to have" criteria. The gatekeeping criteria will be used in your profile and also for me to conduct your searches and screenings. You will work on this while I am creating your profile, then we will refine it through a phone consultation.

(Platinum and Silver Package) Includes 2 private coaching sessions to increase your dating success. These can be face-to-face as applicable.

5. Activate Dating Site

We review the features, advantages and benefits of several sites. I am well versed on the major dating sites and have a goal to assist you in choosing your best fit. Once you make your choice, the site it is activated by you, and search privileges are shared with me. I input your profile and photos and maintain the site for you.

(Platinum and Gold Package) While you are sleeping, working or playing, I am busy doing your searches and reviewing matches that have responded to your profile.

6. Conduct Searches and Submit Match Screenings (Platinum and Gold Package)

Per our agreed upon schedule, I will submit potential match profiles to you for review. Once I get your feedback, I make the initial contact to matches that meet your approval, and respond accordingly to responses to your profile.* 

7. Manage all Incoming and Outgoing E-mail Communications (Platinum and Gold Package)

The goal of the screening process is to use your criteria as a filter to explore matches that meet your "gatekeeping" criteria, and gently decline those that do not. My role is to hold you accountable to the criteria you set. With each level of communication, we dive deeper into discovering if this person is a potential match or not.

There are 4 levels of screening: the suggestion is three on e-mail, one phone call. If the phone turns out successfully, then a casual "in person meet-up" over coffee is appropriate. I will provide you with coaching and resources on what to look for during this fun first meeting. We will continue working on the Match Screening phase until we successful find your match!

(All Packages) *I  will create 4 e-mail templates for the different levels of match screening: (1) Your initial contact; (2) Screening Questions level One, (3) Screening Questions Level Two  (4) A polite decline letter is also included.

Preferred Online Dating Sites